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Choosing A Baby-Sitter or Nanny For Your Child

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

Hiring a baby-sitter or nanny is one of the most expensive child-care arrangements, but the biggest difficulty is finding a reliable, well-qualified person. Because in-home care is not regulated in any way, you are the sole judge of a caregiver’s character, knowledge, and skill.

Start your search at least 2 to 3 months before you go back to work so you have enough time to make a thoughtful decision. Ask friends and neighbors for recommendations. Before hiring or accepting an offer to baby-sit from relatives or friends, be sure they are qualified to care for your child and that you would feel comfortable giving them instructions or disagreeing with them on child-care issues that are important to you. Avoid hiring someone who is looking for something to do until a better offer comes along. To find candidates, check with a local agency that provides training and placement for in-home providers. Ask your doctor for names. Check child-care ads and place your own help-wanted ad in your local newspaper, local college career services office, and community bulletin board or newsletter. Specify the hours and days you need child care, your child’s age, the general area in which you live (but don’t give your address), and whether or not you want the sitter to live in or have a driver’s license. If you require a nonsmoker, say so.

Your child’s caregiver should have training in child development or have experience taking care of children. The caregiver should also appreciate the importance of stimulating your child’s intellectual, social, and emotional development. He or she should be able to communicate well so your child can build his or her language skills. Your caregiver should respect your philosophy of child rearing and understand that you are the ultimate authority for making decisions about the care of your child. He or she also needs to guide your child’s behavior with positive reinforcement rather than physical punishment.

Even if you work with a child-care agency that prescreens candidates, you should participate in the screening process. First, screen candidates over the phone to eliminate those who don’t seem right. Listen to your gut feeling, even if you are under the gun because you need help immediately. Ask whether or not they’re available the hours you need them, their salary needs, how long they can commit to the job, what interests them about child care, what kind of work they have done in the past, and when they can start. Invite the best candidates to your home for an interview. Some parents develop a job application form to make the hiring process more formal and professional.

Once you have a candidate in mind, contact at least three former employers and three personal references. Ask former employers about the candidate’s responsibilities, his or her strengths and weaknesses and the ages of the children that they have worked with.

When your new nanny starts working with the kids, spend a few days with her at home to get familiar with your house, kids and schedule. Do some spot-checking for the first few days. Get feedback from other family members, who comes in contact with the nanny. If your gut is telling she is the right nanny for your kids, go ahead.

Buying Books for Children

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

Reading books is a good habit for all. Especially children must cultivate the habit of reading books. The most worst thing in the society is ignorance. To survive in this competitive world, everyone should get knowledge on all issues. So, children must be aware of all the realities in life. Naturally, children like to play. They don’t show much interest in reading books. But, in this modern world so many books are especially written for children to entertain and create interest in them. These books are mainly focus on two important things such as entertainment and education. They play an eminent role in entertaining and guiding the children into a right path.

Children prefer the most interesting and interactive stories. While reading these books they do not loose their interest in the middle of the story. So, by considering and keeping this point in the mind books are written to attract the children. These books are classified into various categories such as traditional books, story books and fiction books.

During their development stage children have various imaginations and lot of questions in their mind. Parents and teachers should guide and create an interest of reading books in the children. So, children books are very helpful and useful for kids to get knowledge about this amazing world. Among all the books children like fairy tales and adventurous story books. To attract the children these stories are described with animated pictures. Children prefer the books which were written in simple language.

Nowadays the parents have many choices of buying books for their children. Various online books stores are present on the internet with which one can get the books on various genres and topics for children of all ages. If you want to look for a book contaning literature and educated content for your children, The Legend of Albion is a perfect choice. This is a story told in poetic form by the American poet and photographer Joseph Randell Sherman.

Intellectually charged with twelve full-color illustrations, authored by PA based artist Gianetta Ellis, this epic poem is a journey of mythic proportions. Hailed as one of the most ingenious and bold literary undertaking in a generation, he shares a splendid narrative of how Great Britain was formed. A young Prince Albion becomes a king when he is but a babe in the arms of a knight forced to rescue him. This same knight helps him on the road of life and in the ways of becoming a leader. Readers follow King Albion through his life – as he matches wits with a wizard, receives his tutelage and tames a dragon until he falls in love and has a son of his own. The road of a king is long and winding. In this case, a king of great legion founds a homeland – a small great nation; indeed, a legend is born.

“The Legend of Albion” is Joseph Randell Sherman’s first epic poem for children. He uses also the pen names of Joseph Randell and Joseph* ~ OneLight*®, is an American ex-pat living in Portugal. As a poet and photographer, his earlier work has been included in six anthologies and been distinguished by a number of international awards. He is the author of “Songs of Love”, a collection of romantic poems, and “Echoes from Within”, a book of haiku. Another creation, “Universes Beyond the Visible ~ Elements of Dream”, is a book of photography with bilingual texts (English and Portuguese) of poetry and poetic prose coauthored with Alexandra Oliveira, his partner.

You can buy “The Legend of Albion” and his other works at the bookstores online. Online bookstores are the most reliable place to search for your child’s favourite books. The best aspect is that you can avail these books easily right from your home. All you need to do is, select the book and order it online.