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Child Care Expectations

Monday, May 10th, 2010


Child care has become a hot button issue in political arenas these days. It is wrapped up in the concern for education, which has become one of the primary concerns for many voters. Parents are worried that their children will not be well prepared to deal with the demands that government has placed on educational systems, and so are looking to preschools in order to prepare their children for the best possible education.

In the minds of many, child care providers are simply places where children are dropped off and picked up at the end of the day, with no attention paid to that eight hours of in between time. They are generally regarded as expensive playhouses.

However, the standards of parents these days have subsequently raised the standards of child care providers. Child care is often quite
expensive, so parents expect that they essentially receive a good return on their investment. They want to know that their child is not only being cared for, but actually learning from the child care experience.

Services offered by child care providers vary rather extensively. Some of the more high quality providers can offer organic meals, teaching in
foreign languages, instruction on computers, and even some basic math skills. Children are expected to have a grasp of the basics like numbers and the alphabet before they reach elementary school. The reason for this is that research has shown that children who know these things before beginning elementary school are more likely to perform better in school.

Child care providers can actually work in competition with other providers for business. Certain providers will boast particular strengths, while others might show strengths in many areas, and even have extras like gymnastics or martial arts.

These providers, of course, come with a healthy price tag. The more services a provider offers, the more expensive the school. Additionally, there is typically a long waiting list for the best providers. Some parents even go to the extent of getting on waiting lists even before they get pregnant.

Child care is the middle of the march toward progression of our society. Providers are often on the cusp of technology and new developments in understanding children.

The question is whether or not a child should be so continuously educated versus simply having their childhood for play. There is certainly merit in allowing a child to play. After all, they are children. They are not born as adults, and there is some wisdom in letting children be children. Even experts cannot agree on which is the better course of action, therefore it is left to the parent to determine their child’s care based on their own values and priorities.

Baby’s First Birthday: Sticking to the Basics

Wednesday, October 24th, 2007

Baby’s first birthday is an exciting and memorable milestone for every parent. Having a first birthday party for your little one is a great way to bring family and friends together to celebrate the conclusion of a new year in your life. Throwing a birthday party for a one year old may sounds easy in theory, but often times there is so much going on in your life that you have little time to plan and prep. Here are some great things to keep in mind as you get ready to commemorate baby’s first birthday.

Keep it simple: Often times mothers become so obsessed with throwing the best first birthday party for their child that they lose site of the obvious and become overwhelmed with the unnecessary. Think back to a time when you were one and your parents threw a birthday party for you. Can you remember? Chances are, much like millions of other people, you can’t. That said, your child will most likely not remember their first birthday party and therefore won’t feel short changed thirty years from now when they think back on your parenting skills. By keeping a party simple, you will minimize your stress level and maximize the amount of time you have to spend with friends, family, and the busy birthday baby.

Keep it Short: Often times your child isn’t the only youngster at the party and therefore you’re not the only parent chasing around a rambunctious baby. In order to keep things as easy going as possible for you and your guests, keep the party short and moving. Babies and small children can have a short attention span and it’s in your best interest to keep them occupied during their time there. Keeping the party short will make you and your guests happier in the long run.

Make a List: Every baby is different and therefore buying baby gifts can sometimes be complicated. Help your guests with their purchase by giving them a little guidance. When you are writing out your invitations, before you seal the envelope, slip in a litter letter that lists your baby’s size, what he or she needs, and any favorites they may have. This will help you cut back on making returns and ensure the gifts you receive go to good use.


Games and Activities: It’s always a good idea to keep kids entertained by offering a couple of age appropriate games or activities. If you have a large group of babies and toddlers present at the party, try simple activities such as coloring. If your party has some older children who aren’t entertained by a easy to color picture, then think about playing a safe game of pin the tail on the donkey or have a treasure hunt. Regardless of the age group, it’s important to keep the games short and simple to avoid complications and crying kids.

Menu: Once again, simplicity is the key when choosing what to serve at your baby’s birthday. Be logical when deciding what to serve. If you’re having a large group, you’ll want to keep things as clean as possible. Stick with foods that you know children will eat like hotdogs or kid friendly pizza. Make sure to keep the kids in a general area that is far from carpeting and easy to stain couches, carpets, and curtains. It’s also a good idea to keep tons of napkins ready for messes and spills.